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šŸŒ Why I’m Starting at Home Before Saving the World
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šŸŒ Why I’m Starting at Home Before Saving the World

I hear you — truly.
And I respect the deep empathy that drives you to care about global injustice, war, oppression, and suffering far from our shores. That empathy is beautiful. It’s powerful.

But here’s the hard truth I’ve come to accept:
It’s not a lack of empathy that makes me focus on economic issues here at home. It’s that people in Canada are struggling to afford food, housing, and basic dignity — right now.

And if we don’t fix that first, we lose our ability to fix anything else.


🄫 You Can’t Fight for Justice on an Empty Stomach

A hungry population can’t campaign for international human rights.
A stressed-out parent choosing between rent and groceries can’t join a global movement.
When survival becomes the daily mission, activism becomes a luxury.

That’s not selfish — that’s reality.


🧱 Real Change Starts With a Strong Foundation

I learned this the hard way.
For years, I poured myself into global causes — trying to make a difference on the biggest stage. But I was avoiding the chaos in my own backyard.

It felt meaningful. But it wasn’t sustainable.

Because you can’t build a better world when your own house is on fire.

It doesn’t mean I don’t care about the world.
It means I care enough to be strategic about how I help.


šŸ‘£ There’s a Sequence That Actually Works

The most grounded, effective activists I know follow this 3-step process:

  1. Fix your own life
    Heal your trauma. Get stable. Learn boundaries.
    You can't give what you don't have.

  2. Help your community
    Lift others around you. Build trust. Share your strength.
    Local roots grow global fruit.

  3. Then take on the world
    Once you're grounded and connected, your reach multiplies.
    Now you're not just reacting — you're leading.


šŸ’„ Doers vs. Talkers

There are two kinds of people in this world:

  • Shit talkers — who want to save the world, but resist working on themselves.

  • Doers — who want to save the world too, but are humble enough to admit that real change starts within.

It’s not flashy.
It’s not always tweetable.
But it’s real — and it’s what works.


🚧 If You Skip Step One…

If you skip step one, everything falls apart.
You burn out.
You lash out.
And worst of all — you become the very thing you set out to fight.

That’s not a warning.
It’s a pattern. One I’ve lived. One I’ve seen repeat in others.


šŸ’” The Takeaway

We all have good intentions.
But intention without grounded action just becomes a mess of burnout, bitterness, or blind rage.

So yes — care about the world.
Fight for justice.
Stay informed.

But don’t shame people for starting small. For fixing their finances. For healing their past. For building something real right where they live.

That’s not apathy.
That’s the only way forward.


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