I hear you ā truly.
And I respect the deep empathy that drives you to care about global injustice, war, oppression, and suffering far from our shores. That empathy is beautiful. Itās powerful.
But hereās the hard truth Iāve come to accept:
Itās not a lack of empathy that makes me focus on economic issues here at home. Itās that people in Canada are struggling to afford food, housing, and basic dignity ā right now.
And if we donāt fix that first, we lose our ability to fix anything else.
š„« You Canāt Fight for Justice on an Empty Stomach
A hungry population canāt campaign for international human rights.
A stressed-out parent choosing between rent and groceries canāt join a global movement.
When survival becomes the daily mission, activism becomes a luxury.
Thatās not selfish ā thatās reality.
š§± Real Change Starts With a Strong Foundation
I learned this the hard way.
For years, I poured myself into global causes ā trying to make a difference on the biggest stage. But I was avoiding the chaos in my own backyard.
It felt meaningful. But it wasnāt sustainable.
Because you canāt build a better world when your own house is on fire.
It doesnāt mean I donāt care about the world.
It means I care enough to be strategic about how I help.
š£ Thereās a Sequence That Actually Works
The most grounded, effective activists I know follow this 3-step process:
Fix your own life
Heal your trauma. Get stable. Learn boundaries.
You can't give what you don't have.Help your community
Lift others around you. Build trust. Share your strength.
Local roots grow global fruit.Then take on the world
Once you're grounded and connected, your reach multiplies.
Now you're not just reacting ā you're leading.
š„ Doers vs. Talkers
There are two kinds of people in this world:
Shit talkers ā who want to save the world, but resist working on themselves.
Doers ā who want to save the world too, but are humble enough to admit that real change starts within.
Itās not flashy.
Itās not always tweetable.
But itās real ā and itās what works.
š§ If You Skip Step Oneā¦
If you skip step one, everything falls apart.
You burn out.
You lash out.
And worst of all ā you become the very thing you set out to fight.
Thatās not a warning.
Itās a pattern. One Iāve lived. One Iāve seen repeat in others.
š” The Takeaway
We all have good intentions.
But intention without grounded action just becomes a mess of burnout, bitterness, or blind rage.
So yes ā care about the world.
Fight for justice.
Stay informed.
But donāt shame people for starting small. For fixing their finances. For healing their past. For building something real right where they live.
Thatās not apathy.
Thatās the only way forward.
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